WHO HAS ‘IT’?–The Fable of the ‘Alpha Female Cat’.
As I continued sitting in my truck, slowly slipping my coffee and water, I am watching the females as they line up and enter Stoney’s. After C/L told me her theory on the Alpha Female Dog/Wolf, I did some investigation on the web. This is what I discovered after renaming the animal the ‘Alpha Female Cat’.
The Alpha Female & Beta Female
Anna Madsen in Advice Mar 7, 2012 • 10:53am
Following the study on Alpha and Beta males, one finds that the same method can be conducted on women as well. In order to help you elite bachelors understand the opposite sex better and their social patterns, please find the equivalent model to provide you with information on how to distinguish the two categories. We strongly encourage you to take notes, as different strategies should be applied depending on the type of woman you choose; both for casual sex or as a future wife.
The Alpha Female
The alpha female is a tough negotiator. She knows her value, and knows there is more to her than looks. She is the leader-type and constantly surrounded by a group of admiring subordinates. Executive decisions such as where to go, what drinks to order, what guys to talk to, all fall under the jurisdiction of the alpha female.
Not necessarily the most beautiful in her circle of friends, the alpha female knows that brains are what will take her the farthest. Topics like politics, economy, business and law interests her, and she discusses these global issues without difficulty. She does not take directions from men; the alpha females make the calls. She is cynical and sarcastic in her language, but always with a certain charm.
She believes most men are more or less worthless and that women should be treated as goddesses. She’s an opportunist and serious about her career, and uses her networking and sexual skills to the max to get where she wants. The alpha female, being intelligent both intellectually and emotionally, knows how to manipulate a man.
She has a man’s determination, but uses a feminine approach to get her way. Either with a powerful partner or a toyboy on her side, she is sure to stir attention wherever she goes, something she fully enjoys. Men are either intrigued by her or intimidated.
Alpha female pros
The alpha female is playful and interesting. She will make sure to be entertaining and confident as she entertains you. She intrigues her man with her broad knowledge and makes him laugh. She won’t be needy and call 500 times a day. She has other things to do. As she plans to be financially independent, she won’t rely on her husband too much in those matters.
She will bring passion to the relationship, always making it interesting. Being sexually confident, she will take you places you had little idea of existed, and will be open to trying new things. Having a broad network of important contacts, she will gladly introduce you to her circle of royalties, socialites and other influential individuals. Having an alpha woman as your date will increase your stock on the social scene.
Alpha females cons
Alpha females are known for being bitches. She will make sure to create drama and exaggerate things to the max. She’s possessive and sometimes jealous. You can forget about “poker nights” and similar, the alpha woman will decide who you meet and when. Fighting with her will make things worse, we suggest that you just nod and say “sorry” a couple of times to resolve any issues that might occur, as the alpha female won’t be the one crawling back.
Don’t expect her to accept her place in the kitchen, because she is far too evolved for that. She’s demanding and might as well ask her husband to clean, cook and take care of the children.
Advice for the ones pursuing the alpha female: Any forward attempts to woo a herd of women should always be focused on convincing the Alpha Female, because if the alpha female goes, the rest of the skirts will go too. The alpha female is typically the angriest of the group, often a result of poor treatment from past boyfriends. The alpha female’s wrath is dangerous and should be approached with extreme caution.
The Beta Female
The beta female is the sweet, caring and demure woman you men may dream of. She is feminine and enjoys simple pleasures in life such as cooking, taking her dog for a walk, watering her flowers and decorating the house. She has an artistic eye and loves beauty above anything. Fashion, decoration and art interest her. She’s the alpha’s right hand and gives her intelligent, insightful evaluations concerning love, friendship and morals when Alpha is lost.
She knows when to be silent and speaks her opinion only with the utmost diplomacy. Betas are often spiritual and emotional. They have a woman’s intuition. She’s communicative and attentive. She has no problem following someone else and taking orders does not intimidate her. She’s down-to-earth and humble.
She is comfortable with the traditional gender role of women taking care of the needs of their husbands. A Beta is never an Alpha-wannabe, she’s comfortable with who she is. Secretly she hates feminists, and thinks feminists are against everything that is in fact feminine.
Beta females pros
Beta is sweet, catering and considerate. She’s the perfect housewife; comfortable in the kitchen and a good mother. She’s feminine and loves dressing up to please her man. She’s girly and does not challenge her man intellectually (at least not in public). She’s a romantic and dreams of a calm and comfortable life. She is an excellent cook, and will treat her man with delicious meals ever night after a long day at work.
She will also be the perfect hostess, and gracefully entertain your clients at your dinner parties. The beta female is sensitive: rather than shouting and being aggressive, she shows her discontent with tears and a pouting lip. However, the beta is also generous with smiles and compliments and will treat her husband like a king.
Beta females cons
Beta females can be somewhat ditsy and silly, not always known for their intellectual side. Forget about trying to have somewhat of an intellectual conversation, the Beta will not respond with more than a smile. Beta-females follow orders without questioning and can be naive. Betas lack the strong self-esteem the alpha possesses.
They also get emotional, but turn to tears and sobbing rather than threatening words to get their will through. Alpha females may intimidate her. Beta is passive in her relationships, expecting the man to do most of the work/talking/acting. She will never take the first step to seduction, and be prepared as a man that she will expect you to pick up the bill for most of the expenses.
Advice for the ones pursuing the Beta: Betas are shy and subservient. Any attempt to pursue her is time-consuming, however if done right; rewarding. Betas need to feel the sense of being chased and courted. Flowers, chocolate and regular phone-calls are therefore in place. Gentleman-manners are required.
Persistence is key word here. Do not confuse her “hard-to-catch tactic” by a lack of interest, Betas like to play games as they believe that the more difficult they are- the more will they be desired. Act manly and take the initiative – Betas won’t.
Closing thought: At first glance, most alpha males prefer the beta female, as she seem to be the more feminine and approachable choice. However, bear in mind dear Elite reader that both types have their benefits and drawbacks. The alpha female, being more liberal will probably be open to intimacy with you at an earlier point, but to tie her down is a difficult task.
She knows her value and will not stick around with someone who she considers to be on a different social level. On the contrary, the beta-female will take time and consideration before (and if) entering any sexual relationship with you. The reward of an expensive and time-consuming hunt will be an amazing feeling. Be careful though, once you pursued the Beta, she will stick by your side– whether you like it or not.
Anna Madsen | Elite.
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I continued to think back to how I first arrived to Stoney’s in the Spring of 2014. At that time, I had no inkling of the Alpha Female Cat (AFC). However, I started to recognize certain characteristics during encounters with females.
Now whether these females were the AFC, it is not I to judge. In my last post, the pursuit of ‘IT’ was a main focal point in my life. The opportunity to share a moment with ‘IT’ was considered a ‘blessing’.
If ‘IT’ were willing to share with me, not only would I feel ‘ITS’ energy, perhaps I could then pass ‘IT’ on to others. While leaving some of ‘IT’ in return.
During the Fall of 2013, my official marital status is separated. The mother of my children granted me our current house, as another was purchased for her. Our daughter moved in with mom, while the son stayed home.
An Oregon College Football Pilgrimage was on the agenda for October of 2013. I was filled with ‘inspiration’ and ‘blessings’. This is near Eugene, Oregon.
In 2013, I had not yet connected the dots for my College Football Pilgrimages. A friend lived near Corvallis, Oregon. We met as part of the opening staff of Garrett JHS in Boulder City, NV in 1979.
He was in maintenance and I in educating. Occasionally, we would switch roles. He gave me an open invitation to visit with him, if I was ever in the territory. Since I had not ever been, I said why not.
My Pilgrimage started in Portland, with a rental car to Eugene. Fall was just beginning to show its blooms. This being my second Pilgrimage, I had still not found my groove.
I did do my Friday Ritual, but did not photo it. A fence surrounds the entire University of Oregon Sport’s Complex. My close-up ritual was not to be.
I arrived 5 hours before game time for tailgating, but Autzen Stadium does not open its gates until three hours before kick-off. I was limited to across the street tailgating, but did not record my activities. I felt like a ‘stranger’ in a strange land.
When the gates did open as I walked my way around the parking lots, the campsites were slowly being constructed. I found it odd that the U. of Oregon had limited gate access.
Seeking help, I asked the Tailgate Patrol. She directed me to the co-eds.
The co-eds passed me off to members of the Oregon Dance Team. This is my first connection with a Dance Team and/or Cheer Squad.
The Dance Team pointed me to the direction of Indoor Tailgating
The next photo is not from my camera, never the less, I did witness the beauty.
My first view from inside Autzen Stadium.
Other Photos
As the first quarter game to an end, I made an observation to the fan on my right. Washington State University playing against the Oregon Ducks were offensively trying a novel attack. They did not run the ball once in the first quarter. I told him, if this pace continues, we might see some kind of a record. When the game ended, we did.
No. 2 Oregon buries Wash. State; Connor Halliday attempts 89 passes
EUGENE, Ore. — Oregon quarterback Marcus Mariota rarely gets rattled. But he does get concerned. Never mind that the second-ranked Ducks handily defeated Washington State 62-38, or that Mariota threw for two touchdowns and ran for another.
The sophomore quarterback was kicking himself for a pair of fumbles, both of which led to first-half touchdowns for the Cougars.”I’ve got to take care of the ball better,” he proclaimed after the game.
Meanwhile, Washington State’s Connor Halliday was breaking records.
Halliday completed 58 of 89 passes for 557 yards and four touchdowns for the Cougars (4-4, 2-3). His attempts broke the FBS-level record of 83 set by Drew Brees for Purdue on Oct. 10, 1998. His total attempts and completions also broke the Pac-12 records set by Arizona’s Matt Scott last season, and his total yards set a Washington State record.
But Halliday also threw four interceptions, including one that was returned 51 yards for a touchdown by Terrance Mitchell early in the fourth quarter. The junior leads the nation with 17 interceptions.
“I knew going in, on about Monday of last week, that we were going to throw it a lot. I mean, nobody ever thinks 89 is going to be the number,” Halliday said.
THINGS I REMEMBER FROM THE OREGON GAME:
The pre-game activities were equal with other top productions, I have witnessed. The Duck Mascot leading the team on to the field is priceless.
The noise level in the beginning raised my goose-flesh, but as the route continued, the passion of the fans lessened. To be honest with you, I did not stay for the entire contest. With about 8 minutes remaining in the fourth quarter, I made my way to the exit.
What was produced for me, but unknown to me at the time of my departure was an ‘Historical Event’. Though, I did not not see every pass attempt and completion, I was part of a ‘Record Setting Event’, as explained in the above article.
‘IT’ reminded me that when one goes out, one never knows what awaits. Until that record is broken, I will carry ‘IT’ and celebrate ‘IT’ as the undefeated World Champion 1972 Miami Dolphins. They are the only team in NFL history to finish a season unbeaten and untied, and then go on to capture a Super Bowl victory that made them world champions. If their record remains intact after each season, champagne corks are popped.
If the passing mantel should be surpassed, before I depart, I will pay homage to the new record holder. If not, I will celebrate yearly as the Dolphins do,and take ‘IT’ to my grave with me.
BACK IN MY TRUCK, thoughts of past Female Cats played in my brain.
These Cats shared certain characteristics, with beauty leading the way. I follow the creed of Plato.
In the ‘Dialogues of Plato’, Socrates explains his views on ‘beauty’. “For I cannot help thinking that if there be anything beautiful other than absolute beauty, that can only be beautiful in as far as it partakes of absolute beauty–and this I should say of everything.
I leave all that, which is only confusing to me, and simply and singly, and perhaps foolishly, hold and am assured in my own mind that nothing makes a thing beautiful but the presence and participation of beauty in whatever way or manner obtained.
For as to the manner I am uncertain, but I stoutly contend that by beauty all beautiful things become beautiful. That appears to me to be the only safe answer that I can give, either to myself or to any other, and to that I cling, in the persuasion that I shall never be overthrown, and that I may safely answer to myself or any other that by beauty beautiful things become beautiful”.
And the Creed of Aristotle.
Another characteristic shared by these Cats is a ‘smile’. ‘IT’ is best described in the following:
Those ‘smiles’ are what I seek. My Oregon Pilgrimage continued. Does Mother Nature ‘smile’ at you, or do you ‘smile’ at Mother Nature?
The Oregon Coast. On my way to Corvallis, a stop to see the “Spruce Goose” was on my list. This plane was ‘inspiring’.
With Corvallis in my sights it was time to pay a welcomed visit with a friend.
This is Kim G. and he has ‘IT’ and he shared ‘IT’ with me. Kim G. is a Champion. In his neck of the woods, he is a hi-tech crossbow Competitive Champion. He is also highly skilled in other armaments. Plus, he grows ‘Award Winning’ Daffodils and bulbs. Kim G. exposed me to more ‘smiles’ from Mother Nature.
As was the case in Eugene, I did not photo my Friday Ritual, nor did I do an extensive campsite tour. My photos are limited, but I share them with you.
Reser Stadium, University of Oregon State.
Unlike Autzen Stadium, Reser Stadium had campsites being set up on Friday. This is 5 hours before kick-off.
The Baseball Stadium was nearby. This is a ‘Historic Stadium’.
The park has an interesting history, to say the least. For more info go to http://www.osubeavers.com/ViewArticle.dbml?ATCLID=208342862
“When Oregon State began fielding a varsity baseball team in 1907, the school laid out a diamond on a lot just south of the main campus. A century later, that same site still serves as the home of the Beavers, making Goss Stadium at Coleman Field the oldest diamond in the Pac-12 Conference and the oldest college fields in the country.
Over the past century, the campus has grown around Goss Stadium at Coleman Field, making it one of the most picturesque settings in college baseball. The ballpark is a short walk down Waldo Place from the Memorial Union and OSU’s central campus area, making it easy for students to stop by a game between classes.
The field is named for former Oregon State player and coach Ralph Coleman, who guided the Beavers for 35 seasons from 1923-66. The stadium is named for John and Eline Goss, whose major lead gift to the $2.3-million fundraising effort made the project possible.
John Goss was an Oregon State track and field letterman in the 1930s. The naming of the stadium is also a memorial to his older brother, James Goss, an Oregon State graduate.
The Goss family made additional contributions to OSU toward endowed scholarships for student/athletes and other top academic students, including graduates of Portland’s Grant High and members of the Beta Theta Pi fraternity.
The park is symmetrical, measuring 330 feet down the foul lines, 365 to the power alleys and 400 to center. The fence is 14 feet high from left field to left-center, then eight feet high from left-center to right field.
The concrete, steel and brick structure has a press box, a lobby/concession area, restrooms, locker rooms, dugouts and storage areas. The stadium was designed to complement the architecture of the surrounding campus, and to evoke the aura of baseball’s historic parks.”
With Kim G. as my wing-man these photos were captured.
Oregon State Beavers Cheer Squad.
Oregon State Beavers Alumni Cheer Squad.
My first view inside Reser Stadium.
The pre-game pageantry.
University of Stanford was the opponent. They were nationally ranked. An hour before kick-off organized chants and cheers echoed throughout the stadium. Memories of Tuscaloosa, Alabama reverberated in my brain. Some stadiums ‘lather up’, others do not. I prefer the ones that do. These war chants and cheers tickled my goose-flesh.
MEMORIES OF THE GAME INCLUDE: The Oregon State Fans were extremely hospitable. The person who took my photo near the map of the stadium, invited me to his campsite and offered me grub and drink. The Beaver fans showed up with a purpose and cheered with an intensity, that rankled my goose-flesh numerous times.
It was a hard fought contest, but Stanford’s superiority prevailed, leaving the Beaver fans questioning game tactics. Oregon blest me with ‘ITS’ spectacular fall beauty and hospitality.
AS I WAS ORGANIZING THINGS IN MY TRUCK, for my entry, I continued to observe those Female Cats standing outside of Stoney’s.My experience has provided for me the observation skills and analysis to identify similar tactics that have been employed by these Female Cats.
On the web certain theories can be found.
The Alpha Female, Enveloped in Estrogen
“Estrogen gets a lot of attention: from hormone replacement therapy to PMS to menopause. It’s as thick as cold grits at basket, jewelry, and make-up parties. It’s blamed for husband-bashing and teenage tantrums.
But what about all the good things that estrogen has to offer? Like high, round cheekbones, soprano voices, curves that only stop in snowsuits…and the motivation of the alpha female.
Until recently, a phenomenon that can be called a “positive estrogen loop” had been the unicorn of alpha female studies. That is, until Oliver Shultheiss, psychology professor, and Steven Stanton, psychology researcher, both from the University of Michigan, established that high estrogen can act as a catalyst for power acquisition.
In their study, detailed in Hormones and Behavior, women’s affinities to power were assessed. Then, one-on-one dominance contests were staged, with estrogen levels being measured before and after each contest.
In those women who showed notable desires for power, estrogen levels were high, even before competition came into play. When women with high power motivation won competitions, their estrogen levels spiked even higher, and elevated estrogen levels were even detectable the following day.
When those power-motivated women who had higher-than-average estrogen levels lost a competition, their estrogen levels dipped below their own normal levels.
Interestingly, those women who showed low estrogen levels and little need for power from the starting gate showed little estrogen fluctuation, whether they won or lost.
This study shows us that hormonal equality does exist. Alpha males often experience a positive testosterone loop. Now, we can say with a high degree of probability that most alpha females experience a positive estrogen loop (i.e. high estrogen levels increase competitiveness and the likelihood of winning; winning heightens estrogen levels; the cycle continues). A true alpha female will likely experience a regular estrogen high, alternating winning with the desire to win.
This study also explains why many attractive women are also powerhouse alpha females, never willing to lose a battle for “mating rights” with the opposite sex. Estrogen is responsible for the traits that we consider to be most feminine and attractive, as well as for the competitive nature of the alpha female.
Put it all together, and you’ve got an estrogen-rich alpha female…the complementary counterpart to the testosterone-rich alpha male.”
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As I am walking to Stoney’s, I am equipped to engage with whom ever is placed in my path. I now ‘know’ that ‘IT’ will possess at least three things. First is ‘beauty’. Second is a ‘smile’. Third is the powerful release of estrogen-rich female pheromones that will overwhelm my senses.
After some small talk with LT, and paying the cover, I walked into new but familiar territory. I introduced myself to JD, a security expert. He told me this was his second shift.
I told him that this was my ‘Grand Re-Opening’ night. In my Marcus Aurelius character, I informed him that everyone, including myself is here for each others benefits. What those benefits may be, only time will tell.
Within moments a familiar ‘smile’ is shining at me. To find out who this ‘smile’ belong to, you will have to bookmark us for your Friday Fixins with Fox-Feather, to follow our saga and Stories of Inspiration.
My next topic will be The Pederson Penalty at Pitt and Nebraska.
